Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Pouline Middleton aired from June 7th/16
Pouline Middleton was deeply disappointed by her love life. We’ve all been there at one time or another. For Pouline, it was a divorce, leaving her a single mother, and then a relationship with a cheating man that opened her eyes. When Pouline decided to rethink how she dated, and make a list of all the aspects of having a mate that were important to her. Turns out her list had 26 items. She culled them down to just three areas: a man to talk with about not only small things but also the meaning of life; a man to be intimate with; and a man to handle the practical things such as handyman tasks. That’s when the conscious approach to dating kicked in. Pouline decided to take the pressure off and super-charged aspect of dating to “find the one.” She made up her mind to date three different men, one for each area that was important to her.
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She began a very transparent search on-line. Every man she connected with knew her plan and needed to state which area he wished to be considered for. The interactions were fun, funny and profound. Pouline experienced this conscious dating exercise for a year and a half and then found the man who met all of her needs, and they married in 2013.
“One Woman Three Men is a fun read,” says Middleton. “But under the humour is a serious look at bringing our highest consciousness to modern love and sex.”
A native of Denmark, the country that seems to always be out in front with ideas that can change the world, Pouline’s book took off right away and a new can
Since creating her conscious dating model, which she calls Modern Love was born, Pouline has coached hundreds of people to get in touch with their three most important area, whatever they may be. Her process also works for men seeking women and same-sex couples.
Pouline’s second book
The handbook 7 Paths to Love is a guide to people on how to get a deeper and more fulfilling love life. There are four paths for men to follow and three paths for women. The handbook also identifies three side paths not to follow since they lead you away from love.
Relationship and sex coach Pouline Middleton has been working with couples and partners for years, and her experience has brought her to discover 7 fundamental truths that can help every couple create a better relationship, stop arguments about sharing daily chores, and rekindle their desire for intimacy and sex.